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Did you know that no one gets married at their wedding? Strange as this may sound it is true for several reasons. First of all marriage isn’t something you get, it is a relationship into which you enter. Secondly marriage is not a ceremony; it isn’t something that happens, it is a union that is happening. Marriage begins long before your wedding; it starts when you come to know one another, it grows as your relationship deepens, it is celebrated at your wedding when you share vows that speak of love’s most mature characteristic – commitment – and then, hopefully, it keeps getting better…

Tom has over thirty-five years experience officiating at weddings. He is available for couples counseling and for consultation to help plan your wedding (order of service, readings, music, and other rituals/symbols that can make your wedding a personal, meaningful, spiritual, and joyful experience).